Not turn on by my husband

Hey guys. Ok. So my sex life with my husband has lost the 🔥 after 4 yrs... we used to be spontaneous with it but after the first baby (we have a 1 yr old) our sex life has declined. I’m just too tired. Most of the time, he wants to do it at 2am and omg... I am dead sleep to the world. But he wake me up trying to urge me to have sex. But last night really hit the nail. He was trying to have sex with with me. He woke me up kissing on me and I was just so tired that I was begging to go back to bed. Then he just flat out blurted “omg. You done got so boring in bed!” 🤯

That woke me up. I was like “WTF DID YOU SAY?!” And I went off that I wouldn’t be so dam tired if he would get his ass up some nights and put our child back to bed and maybe I would have the energy but I’m fucking tired. He was like “at least I’m trying to come to my wife and not no other person. Then if I cheat, you gonna be wondering why because you not giving me any. I just wanna make love to my wife man and I’m tired of you rejecting me” and he stormed off and went into the room.

So I went to work today and thought about it all day. Idk what to do in this situation. I’m tired. I work too. 8-5 and he 6-6. But I take care of the baby because he crashed by 9am due to his job being mostly hard labor while mine is mainly at a desk which is mental.

So how do we deal with this? Opinions? Comments? Tips?