I don't get it 🤷🏻‍♀️😢

I don't understand how people can have sex and mess around carefree. I'm insecure and hate my body. I think no one will love my body or my face for that matter. My vagina isn't pleasing to the eye and there's too much hair, it looks weird bald so I just leave it alone but no one likes a hairy pussy right? I just don't understand how people can be so confident to do such a scandalous thing with another person helping and being a part of it. Any tips to be more confident in me for the future? Thanks girls 😪