Fertility Drug Users Help!

So I started seeing a fertility doctor and she said she would only test me for pcos (which we found out I don’t have) and won’t do anymore tests until hubs sees a urologist. Well he’s in the Army and in order to go to the doctor for anything he has to tell like 4 different people he works with before he can even see someone to make an appointment. which he doesn’t want to do in this situation. Will all doctors have this rule? Did your doctors make your hubs get tested too?