Feeling disconnected from him.

My boyfriend and I have been together for just under 2 years. And I know by standards it’s not very long. But all of a sudden I’ve started feeling disconnected and like I don’t feel the same way about him anymore.

It started as small things, we plan to rent a place and move in together in September. But when I’m over at his it makes me feel physically sick how gross it is. He refuses to cook or clean, doesn’t eat healthy foods, doesn’t get off his ass, doesn’t look after himself etc.

He hardly ever shows affection. We hardly have sex any more. He’s never been an overly lovey guy. and I accepted that... but it feels like there’s just no ‘spark’ anymore. I still love him so much. But I lay awake at night wondering how to fix this and why I’m feeling like this.

Can anyone help? I really want to fix it