Want to get sexy for hubby but am resentfull

So my husband is such a hard worker. He works long days and when he comes home he is normally exhausted. He still finds time to clean and cook and be in a generally good mood. But then at night he passes out. I bought some sexy lingerie and some toys and want to have some fun together. But I’m kind of resentful that he spends so much energy on everything else but me that I can’t bring myself to do it. I told him I have surprise for him but I am yet to show him...