So my SO knows that's I've been working hard on my final essay for biology. It's due tonight at 11:59pm and I really need a good grade on it to pass the class. But suddenly my professor decides to grade it early at 3:16pm and said I recieved a zero on it. So I emailed her expressing how i thought this wasnt fair and how ive been working hard on it and i stood my ground and she took off the zero and kept the deadline as scheduled. I told my SO about the situation and how i stood up for myself and showed him the messages between my professor and I. and he responded like this -_-

so I stopped texting him for a while since I was pissed off. Then later i was on my way home and my bus skipped my stop so I had to get off further down and walk home. I explained how while I was at a stop light, these two older gross men whistled at me and I responded by flipping them off. My SO then responded like this -_-

He's just been a total jerk. What also bothers me is that he always acts like he didnt do anything wrong. When ever I try to express to him how he has upset me, he gets annoyed. If I dont have a "legit enough reason" then its stupid. We've been together for 2 years and 6 months, and we live together. Am I over reacting??? ----------------------------------- UPDATE: He doesn't usually talk like this, he only does it when he's being weird, full of himself and stupid. . I know for a fact he's not breaking up with me because he always does it as a bluff and the acts like he never said it. I locked myself in the other room because I can't stand to sleep in bed with him.

-----------------------------------UPDATE (5/15/18): Feeling really sad and hurt. I spent and wasted so much time and money and I lost so many opportunities and what would've been good memories because I just wanted to please him and make him happy. 2 years and 6 months of my life wasted on him and I didn't even think twice because I thought he would be better like how he use to. I look around and see other couples and other couples on here and think "wow, he would never do that to me" or "he never would treat me like that" or "I wish we were like that". . I just feel so heart broken and alone now because I don't have any friends to talk to, I've isolated myself since he said I don't need friends because we only need each other. . I don't know what to do.

This is my last attempt to see if he has anything to say for himself. So far not seeing anything. Not gonna end it until I get myself to a safe place and with all my stuff. Then I'll tell him it's over. -----------------------------------UPDATE (5/15/18): He started noticing that my stuff started to disappear because little by little I've been moving my stuff out. and he asked about it and I told him I was tired of him not appreciating and respecting me. I was tried of him treating me like trash and he wouldn't treat me like a queen and like a women should be treated, then I'll find someone else who would. I'm currently at my cousins house staying with her for now and he texted me this. "Fuck man thank you though for making me cry. Im just gonan love you man Imma love you so hard baby dont leave me please please please no i wont be able to go on. Imma have to pretend to love someone else. I will never find anyone like you!!!!! Nicole please dont leave me:'(" ----------------------------------- UPDATE (5/18/18): So far I have been doing alright, it's been difficult but I haven't let that distract me from studying for my finals. Today is the big day for my biology final from 2:45pm - 5:00pm, I'm really nervous. My dad stopped by earlier to check in how I was doing but I was still asleep and he didn't want to wake me. So he left me this note:) made me feel a little better.

I checked my phone and (he who will not be named) texted me wishing me luck on my exam today. I haven't replied though.

UPDATE (3/19/18): I actually did it. I'm crying so so much right now. It hurts. my heart hurts. I know it shouldn't but it does. He told me to tell him what's been hurting me lately, and I started to tell him, and apparently I was sending too many messages and he told me to "Shut up"

-----------------------------------UPDATE (6/02/18): First I would like to thank all of you for being so loving and supportive. Your motivating words have kept me strong and kept my head straight through all of this and I appreciate every single one of you. Secondly, I've taken some of your advice and tried to block as much connection/communication as I could, it's been very hard. But that hasn't discouraged him from trying. he's been sending his brother to deliver notes from him and things he wants to give me and I'm not sure what to do.