Am I in the wrong?

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I’m furious with my husband and I can’t even hide it.
He works and I stay home with our son. Well we decided it was time for number 2 (I’ve been wanting to try for months and months) and he just barely agreed. Anyways, I went to the doctor and was told I am not ovulating on my own, so I lost some weight and I finally started ovulating on my own. Last night was my peak ovulation and I told my husband multiple times and he kept saying “he was too tired” I even went to him naked and he still turned it down.
I’m so mad, to the point where I want to scream and cry. Am I in the wrong??? I feel like we could’ve at least done a quickie and he could’ve went to bed.
How would you feel?

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You are SO in the wrong. 
He doesnt want a baby. 
A quickie?!? You want a second baby so bad you don’t care if it’s made in love ? You’d rather just get it over with in a quickie?!?

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Also if he’s TOO TIRED then stop pressuring him!!!
If roles was reversed would you want him to come to you naked if you told him you was too tired?!

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Yeah you’re wrong. He sounds forced into a second child and obviously doesnt want one

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If you said he just barely agreed then that means he’s not really wanting a 2nd child right now. Talk to him about it without pressuring him so you know what’s really going on. And if he says he’s not ready for another then you’re going to have to respect that and not force him.

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Jeez, tough crowd here. I wouldn’t say you’re in the wrong, I can see your frustration with the situation. I’m assuming here that when you say he “barely agreed”, you don’t mean he agreed to try a little, more like he recently agreed with you that it was time to start trying. I think him not wanting to BD when he knows you’re ovulating, however, may be a sign that he’s not quite all the way on board with the idea. Take a deep breath and talk it out. If he’s not quite ready you don’t want to force it or he will resent you, or worse, the kids. I understand as women we have this timing thing that always runs through our heads. Timing of ovulation, timing BD, how many years apart the kids are going to be... Some men just don’t think that way. At the end of the day, he may just be THAT exhausted and is thinking we’ll make it happen next month. You’ve done a good job of loosing the weight, don’t feel like that was all for nothing. Keep up the good habits and hopefully the right time is just around the corner for you guys!

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He also works all day to support you and your family. So he probably is tired.

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He clearly doesn’t want a second child. Maybe you should wait till he’s ready

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You said he just barely agreed. You cannot force a man to have a child because YOU are ready. That doesn’t mean he is.

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I feel like a baby is a decision that must be agreed upon by both members of the relationship. 
It’s clear your husband doesn’t want another child and your forcing it on him. 
You don’t have right to be upset with him, be upset that you want another baby and your not on the same page.

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No I️ don’t think your wrong he didn’t have to turn you down if he didn’t want a child he should have just voiced it and still have madd you feel like a women I️ hate how so many ppl took his side I’ve been there without the wanting a baby and felt rejected so it’s only right to be hurt plus if he did agree at all he gave u hope where he’s wrong for doing if it’s only to shut u up, tired or not tho he could have just said ok but your doing all the work cause I’m tired there’s always enough energy to get hard and that’s all you need to bring to the party😂 so in the end 1 he was wrong for just barely agreeing no matter how pushy I were u didn’t force him into sex that made u conceive a child he didn’t want he could have stood his ground if he really didn’t want another kid and spoke to you 2 ur
Never to tired for sex u can get hard in your sleep and take advantage of being tired and get ur girl to do the work that night lol 3 neverrr turn a girl down if she’s naked, but next time just try using protection some of the time do he still feels he can be intimate with u even for a quickie maybe he’ll open up more then, srry it’s so long good luck!

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