I find it so annoying how men have no choice into what happens when it comes to babies. Let me explain.

Both parties know when they have sex, protected (birth control and condoms) or not there is a slight possibility of getting pregnant. If a man decides he does not want a child because yous are not in a stable relationship and do not plan to be and he can't afford a baby but is willing to help with an abortion if you get pregnant but you decide otherwise to keep the baby then I feel like YOU are responsible for the baby and shouldn't call him a useless father if he didn't want to be a father in the first place. He did not want the baby but you did, how is that his fault? You BOTH knew you could get pregnant having sex regardless yet you BOTH continued. Telling people to not have sex is just silly but I mean 🤷🏻‍♀️. People (mostly women) always tell other women it's their choice if they would like to go through with an abortion yet the man has to suffer if she decides otherwise. Idk that's just my thoughts.