So quick background, I was 17 years old when I met who I thought was my “soulmate” and we ended up having a child together when I was 19 years old. We got married shortly after..we were together happily for the most part up until the end of 2016. We were in the process of closing on a home together. We had booming careers (I helped him find his passion). We closed on our home and shit started to not feel right. He wasn’t coming home at night (worked in law enforcement 12 hour shifts) so I was like ehhh it’s probably mandatory overtime. I’ll never forget the night he came home late and jumped into intimacy like never before, it felt weird. That night I dreamt that he was cheating with a thin framed girl with long hair. The very next day my sister sent screenshots and pics of this VERY girl! I gave him over an hour to fess up and he wouldn’t budge! I decided I was done and seperated myself from the marriage. He moved on with a coworker which lastly albeit 1 month. He begged for his “family” back but I was done! Fast forward almost 2 years later and 1 month of being LEGALLY divorced- my boyfriend comes in and says uhhh I just found two condoms dates back in 2012 and 2015. He was messing around on me the entire time. He moved in with his gf of 5 months whom he is expecting a child with. He is also getting remarried. All I can do is thank GOD for freeing me from that toxic marriage. Oh and he has professed his love for me numerous times even with his new fiancé and mother of his child in the picture. I was such a young, naive girl. I was blinded by “love”. If things don’t add up ladies, listen to your intuition! My divorce cost me a foreclosure, bankruptcy and repossession of a car I PURCHASED for HIM.

And as for my current romance, he’s a great man, never calls me anything but “my love” and compliments me DAILY. He understands the heartache and nightmare I was living in. We have decided to continue to take things slow. We have been together for 10 months❤️