How to make sex less painful?

Question

So I'm 18 years old and I've been in a relationship with this person for over an year. We decided to have sex when we were both ready and that happened  about 2 months ago
 The first time we tried, I was hot but somehow I wasn't wet, so every time he tried entering into me, I stumbled away or just painfully moaned because it was hurting way too much. He did fingered me with 2 fingers and ate me out. Didn't orgasm, didn't properly had sex but gave him oral and he jacked off 2 times
 The second time, it was still painful. Maybe a little less than the first time and whenever I felt immense pain, I tried pushing away but he grabbed me above himself and showed support so we had more than half of his dick slip in but then I bled and it panicked me so he came out.
 I want to have sex but I'm scared it will hurt and bleed and everything.Is there any way to lessen up the pain?

Answer

I am 25, have been sexually active since I was 16/17. Sex is painful to me still to this day. When my boyfriend and I have sex, it’s vaginal pain and pressure pain. I was told per my doctor that this is more than normal. This is because my uterus is very low, causing the pressure pain. Not being able to become wet is simply cured by lube for most women. In my experiences, live burns. (Go figure!!) So per my doctor we use virgin olive oil! (Ironically it’s the virgin stuff that works the best...) hope this helps!

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This just scared me really bad and I understand how sex will hurt but I’m just scared for when I get older and wanna have sex and I’m scared something like this will happen but yeah it sounds normal and this is really what I imagined my first time being like

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um for me the pain lasted like 3 times, obviously w my first time hurting the most, and it still hurt for a couple times after that w each time hurting less and less, and eventually it was all good and kept getting better and better after that! hope that helps in some way

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I’m pretty the first time is painful for most women. It was definitely for me. I remember screaming and being told to shut up. Anyway, I think going slow and trying more foreplay plus lube will help. It should get better over time, as well. Try to relax as much as you can.

How to make sex less painful?

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