Is it wrong to enjoy men’s predatory behaviour?

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For example, liking the way men look at you like a piece of meat or wanting to solicit these responses from men.

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Enjoying harmless attention, compliments etc? No.
Enjoying actual predatory (degrading) behaviour? I’d seriously ask myself why I enjoy being treated less like person and more like an object. Sounds like there might be some issues.

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I think a better way to put it is: You want attention. It might be okay to an extent but personally I feel like maybe there’s a deeper issue if you purposely seek out pervs to get their attention. It can become very dangerous. Have you tried talking to a professional? Seems like this might stem from some deep insecurities.

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No, there’s nothing wrong with it. Until you start putting down other women because they don’t enjoy it. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard women say they don’t mind it so everyone needs to get over it. Uh, no friend, cat calling can escalate so quickly, it’s terrifying. 
*you as in general you, not directed at OP*

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Sounds more like a fetish. Some people get a thrill out of being degraded. There's a lot of crazy fetishes, i wouldn't say they're wrong.

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Different strokes for different folks.🤷🏾‍♀️ I dint think it’s wrong.

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So I think it could be damaging by possibly encouraging this behavior from men. I don’t understand why someone would like it..maybe they like the attention. I’d say most women don’t like it though, and I wouldn’t want women admitting they like it. We don’t need those nasty men thinking it’s any more okay than they already think it is.

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Hmmm. I’m not sure that I’d moralize it with right/wrong if you’re a consenting adult. 
It does sound like it could be potentially dangerous though. 
I do think it’s wrong for men (or anyone) to engage in predatory behavior. Unless they know for sure the other person is into it.

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I enjoy being degraded but not by strangers. I only want it by my SO cause I know he truly doesn't think those things and it only happens during times of intimacy.

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When I met my ex he walked up to me at a bar and grabbed me by the throat. God I loved that man

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As long as you’re just enjoying it.

Is it wrong to enjoy men’s predatory behaviour?

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