lazy SO

He just sits there, on his laptop and phone. Never offers to help with the cooking or cleaning, just sits there. And no, if I ask you to do something it's not the same as you offering to do it from the goodness of your heart! We work in the same type of job, we both get tired, I actually wake up earlier than him to work out then STILL have to prepare breakfast for him! At his parents house (coz he still hasn't moved out at 25), the pattern is the same. His mother or sister will provide all his needs.. Am I too modern? Is that a thing? Am I still to wait on my SO hand, foot and mouth because I am female? Damn this life!!