am i tripping?

so today my boyfriend and i suppose to go wash clothes. as i was getting ready our daughter comes to me and say "mom tissue is stuck up my nose." i panic because i see blood. so I'm trying to get it out but nothing is working. so my sister suggested i take her to the e.r. i tell him he gets mad because he want to wash clothes. so am i wrong for feeling like this relationship is over? one thing i dont tolerate is someone mistreating kids especially your own. i felt as if he dont care about her. to put the icing on the cake he still haven't call nor text to see how she was doing. i just feel like this is the last straw the relationship is to toxic.