I work right next to a woman (38 years old) who is about 20 weeks pregnant with her first. They got pregnant in six months of trying…which is great. It’s awesome. I’m happy for them. But either she’s complaining about it or she does stuff like she just did today and comes over all I just can’t believe I’m really pregnant and he’s really in there and you will feel the same way when it happens for you. THAT’S NOT HELPFUL. THAT’S NOT ENCOURAGING. It just makes me feel sad. What IF it never happens? What if it’s not possible for me? I really try to stay hopeful most of the time. We’ve only been trying for eight months and I start Clomid next cycle (getting progesterone on Monday or Tuesday to get the period started) but it’s not a guarantee that it’ll work. Clomid doesn’t work for plenty of people. It’s so exhausting to be surrounded by so many women who get pregnant so easily and take it for granted. That just complain about being tired and uncomfortable and whatever. Don’t they know how much a lot of us here would give to be tired and crampy and uncomfortable?? Just needed to vent and I know you ladies understand that it’s hard to be happy for others all the time. Baby dust to all of us!