messaging this cute more than friend boy HELP!!!!

Soo, I really don’t want to bore you with all the details unless u guys want to, so I’ll just go ahead and say it “summarized”.

Basically I’ve been talking to this cute boy, (btw he is younger by like 11 months) he is in my best friends school, that’s how we know each other.

We’ve been talking and talking for like 4-5 moths now... I think... so like we have taken lots of trust, thanks to this there are topics that we talk about which I have never talked with a guy before.

Anyways, I’m the type of person which loves to hear but also share a lot. I normally can trust a person in a not so long amount of time, I guess that’s how we hit it off a lot. Back to the point, since I’m that type of person im used to replying to texts almost immediately and that has been horrific with him. IDK WHY but he takes THE HOLW WORLD TO ANSWER BACK, and like sometimes we are in a conservation a sed the text and it’s been 45 minutes and still no answer. No answer. NO ANSWER IN 45 MINUTES? WHILE IN A CONVERSATION! see why I get stressed so much.

One of my best friends (a chill one) told me I have to get a grip and just take your time responding too! And I’m just there like: umm no thanks. It’s just that I love talking to him and hearing him up. It’s just like part of my day now.

Here is where you guys go in. What should I do? Can you give me some advice, please.

WHEN U RESPOND IN THE COMMENTS (which I hope u do) PLEASEEEE tell me if you stopped here or kept reading👇🏼 thanks loves <3

—————————————————————————

I guess I can vent about this thing too. Idk if it’s going to affect your opinion about what I said before, but whatever you don’t have to read this if you want.

So sometimes when we are on the phone (we usually do video calls too) I ask him how his day went and stuff and all he responds is: Fine, normal/ As usual. Doesn’t this bother you? Like, if I ask this it’s for you to tell me what u did or idk anything BUT THAT, if YOU DONT WANT TO TELL ME, FINE. Just like every time we talk on the phone it’s usually late and he is kinda tired so he normally says that, (Im not saying I blame him, remember I’m venting). But idk I get kinda sad because I sometimes wait for the time on the day where we get to talk and when we finally do he says that.

Hold, I’m not done yet. He has also this thing were he forgets things constantly like he doesn’t have a mental problem or anything, ya just like we are talking right and he takes foreverrrrr to answer he finally comes back and he is like: “oh what were we talking about?”. SOOOO ANNOYING. Yeah sure I’ll tell him what he or I said before but sometimes it’s just gets on my nerves.

Just the fact that when he calls me; he pretends that I will do ALLLLLL the talking, like um honey us girls like to hear too you know? (And yeah I told him) I said: “Hey, you know this comes like in both ways, I’ll talk and you’ll hear, but sometimes you will have to talk and I of course will listen, I will be very glad to.” He was like so offended and said like: “oh sorry idk” but he sounded so sad I thought: omg I’m being so rude, shit am I pushing it? Oh god I’m pressuring him...

Like all those things are small details, I still love being in his company and everything. He is one of the best things I think has ever happened to me. Although I need help with the thing I mentioned. Thanks if you read all the way here, I appreciate it tons ❤️