69 Tips, Please

I am abstinent. My boyfriend is not. He delights in making me feel good and eventually orgasm but of course is disappointed if he doesn’t finish, too. (#Same, honestly.) He wants to make us both feel good at the same time. We’ve tried 69 once before, and tbh it didn’t go very well. I mean, it wasn’t disastrous, but I don’t think it did much for either one of us. He’s asked to do 69 again, and I said I’d give it a try, but I thought I’d ask some advice first from my lovely gal pals. I can’t seem to focus on both of us at the same time. I’m on a medication that makes it hard for me to orgasm, so I have to really focus, and he is just well-practiced at edging himself. My problem is I don’t know how to focus on myself enough (what sensations I’m feeling) to make sure I orgasm like he wants me to (let’s be real, I want it, too) while at the same time giving him all the attention he needs to orgasm himself. If I start thinking about myself, I feel like I start sucking (ha) at head, but if I focus on him the way I know I need to I’ll never finish. It’ll just be like a clit massage. Help?

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