I fit in my jeans at 9+ weeks...and it terrifies me!

Little back story. I had a pmp last December. Found out at 12 weeks. Because of the extra "cell growth" I was decently bumped by that time though my baby had already passed away. Maybe only 5-7 extra pounds, but I looked pregnant.

Cut to 9ish weeks now. My bloat went down at 8 weeks, so I fit into my jeans comfortably again. It scares me. I still have all my other symptoms; exhausted, tired, very sensitive nipples. But no physical sign of being 9w2d.

Anyone else not extremely bloated? I know I shouldn't worry or compare, especially since last time I was big and it wasn't legitimate. But I can't help but think I should be showing a little! One living child and one angel baby, btw. Third pregnancy.