**update**

Thank you so much for reading my post. I feel so blessed, I thought I was the only one who is feeling this way. My 8 year old is very excited to be a big sister. She helps me around the house like push the laundry basket to the garage or out so we can fold them. At night she reads to us (mommy and baby sister) and we sit around talking until we say our last prayer and bed. my husband works at night so he gets the day with her while I'm at work. But again thank you so much for the advice and making me feel better