Sad sex life ...

I have been feeling a little .. sexually unsatisfied. 😬 I left a rough relationship - with amazing sex, and now my new boyfriend is AMAZING. But I am not getting what I need out of our sex life . Not to be graphic but I neeeeeed a big 🍆 in my life ! And it’s just not working for me. I don’t know what to do. I’ve been having wet dreams about my ex and honestly - that’s not something I want to keep happening. I know I could get a sex you but we all know it’s not better than the real thing.