I have been with my husband (common law) for almost 2 years. He moved in with my in my home. He was a smoker when we met but never excessive, I told him his wheezing bothered me and just didn’t want Anymore of that stuff in his system. So he got prescribed champax and was great, well few months later had family moved in and apparently that stressed him out but he never brought it up or talked to me until we fought. Now family moved out and his smoking is so bad, all I hear at night is wheezing and he coughs so bad I swear a lung will come out next. We are TTC to complete our mixed family and we are both excited but these days I find he’s keeping something from me and as much as I want a baby (my 4th and his 2nd) i don’t know if he will make a change even for our kids or us. On another note he spends money where ever he wants, in sole provider I pay 95% if bills and etc. But if history, I was in a very bad emotionally unstable relationship with my ex, he would steal from me,lie and cheated multiple times. I met my hubby (now) online and He’s such a great man, is a great role model for my boys (3). He’s handy and can work, loves me and my boys unconditionally. But every time I smell the smoke on him or hear him wheeze or cough out an organ basically I feel so hurt and sad and maybe having a baby with him is not the best.

Sex is great,no issues, treats me like a queen there!