Next week gender will show...how should I find out???

So next week is our appointment to find our baby's gender and I still haven't decided what I should do??? 1. Let the ultrasound person show me everything so I can see and be excited? 2. Have the ultrasound person write it down so me and my hubby can enjoy the moment privately together? 3. Not figure out at all? ( Only thing is I am a very inpatient person so I don't think I could not know ) ANY OTHER IDEAS????? Please help us decide what to do. I am so excited. I have had 3 misscarriages and this is our first baby to make it this far. 💖💖