Making the first move? Do you? Does he? Equally split the responsibility

So my husband keeps telling me he wants me to make the first move for us to do the BD, but in our relationship I can say that most of the time he has made the 1st move. I don’t mind once in a while, but I like it when he does. Any advice on how to get him to make the 1st move with out him knowing lol jk. Or advice on getting him to want to be the one to initiate things most of the time! Thanks in advance girls

Update*****

The thing is, I don’t want to make the 1st move. I like it and def make me more excited about the venture if he comes onto me/ starts things up. Don’t know why I just feel like he should be the one to make the first move. We have gone sometimes up to 5 months without having sex. Is it wrong of me to want him to want me, and show it? And I feel like if he did I would feel more comfortable making a move and that I won’t be rejected. 🙅🏼‍♀️ and how are we supposed to have a baby if we never, or barely have sex? I just feel so unattractive when he doesn’t want to ever do anything physical with me? And that he’s ok with never having sex cuz I’m not. I’ve tried to talk about it but we always end up in a fight and I’m not even sure why? I just want to sleep with my husband and maybe have him come in to me a little is that too much for me to ask if him?