Everyone worried about my husbands BM when we announce pregnancy?!?

I’m more than willing to listen to opinions and honestly welcome them. Need to know if I’m just being hormonal and crazy.

But we just announced that my husband and I are pregnant with OUR second, his fourth. And EVERYONE in his entire family told his BM and asked if she was okay. Went and rannnn to her about our business and our life and had to check on her and make sure she’s “okay” and “handling it alright”?! What the fuck.

We’ve been good on coparenting lately and honestly maybe even close to friendly. But that does not in any way shape or form make OUR business her business and after things very very very clearly ending between them. A divorce and years later, and she still needs to be checked on by his family (and welcomes it because she acts sad to them) to make sure she’s handling MY pregnancy okay? Jesus Christ.