Endometriosis or just hypochondria?

First of all, this will be my first time writing anything personal on Glow. But I’ve gotten to the point where I really need some help figuring out what’s going on.

My husband and I are TTC but even with tracking when I’m ovulating I still end up getting my period and it’s been frustrating and very emotional to say the least.

‼️Fair warning‼️ this will be a long post, because I really feel like I need to know if anyone understands where I’m coming from.

A little about me, I am 24 years old, i get really bad headaches even migraines that just are debilitating. I’m pretty sensitive to eating dairy, high acidic foods and I still eat them which causes me a lot of pain, including cramping, bloating, diarrhea, nausea. Idk if I have IBS but kinda feels like it. I also cramp up after sex. I even when to the doctors because my husband went in too deep and I was in a lot of pain and they said it could just be the position and I was sensitive because the day before I had thrown up and my body was still not recovered and have gas built up.

I have been having irregular periods for a few years now. And I think I only noticed it once I had a depo shot around 2010-2011. And haven’t been a person to do BC because I was always afraid it will ruin my chances of having kids in the future or make it more difficult to conceive. Which I know isn’t always the case. And then I tried taking the pill for like 1 month or 2 in 2014-2015 can’t remember which year, I didn’t like it so I stopped, but ever since these last times my periods have been irregular.

By irregular periods I mean I don’t have my period after 28 days like the normals, but it takes me 30-45 days and an average of 4 days of my flow. I get my cramps and breast pain a week before my period. And the cramps on my pelvis, and lower back feel like I need to go take a dump like I need to rush to the bathroom but then when I’m there I don’t need to poop it’s just that sensation you get. Or you wanna push but you’re afraid your gonna pop a vessel or something. My cramps are sharp. And it’s heavy. Really feels like gravity is pulling down on it. I don’t throw up or anything But I get nauseous.

I never thought of me having Endo or anything because the doctors make me feel like I’m overreacting. Last year in September 2017- November 2017 I thought I really was pregnant because I didn’t get a period for 3 months, instead I got brown discharge when I wiped. Which made me think I was Pregnant because I read it could be implantation bleeding. So the first month I waited. Up until I kept getting negative test results and I got pretty bad cramps. So I went to the doctors and mind you, they diagnosed my symptoms as “ you might be pregnant “ they take a pee test and blood test and nothing. So they start ruling it as hormonal imbalance. Blood tests came out negative for that as well. So then they convince me, it’s normal to skip periods. Which I don’t ever think that’s normal! It’s become a “norm” now I guess.😔 I ask for every possible test, I get an ultrasound and they say My ovaries are healthy but I have nabothian cysts in my cervix, but that “it shouldn’t be the reason why I’m not getting my periods”. Soon after a month I get a papsmear and everything is healthy and whatever cysts I had are gone now. They tell me “don’t stress” which I know could also be a reason why I can’t conceive. But how can I not stress, when idk when I’ll be getting my period or when I’m ovulating because all the tell signs screw me over sometimes. The pains can go for a week or less and it’s never on the date it should be although this application glow has been tracking it pretty well.

after 2 months I got a real period and have been trying to take care of my body so we can TTC but this past month has definitely given me a reason to question myself and my body. In May my husband and I were like bunnies just going for it especially during my ovulation days I even used an ovulation test, For this time. He and I came to Hawaii and currently are here but he got here before me, for work and I followed right after but before coming out here I got really sick like some ear infection and a form of cold or allergy cold. Pretty bad then my extreme sore breasts came into play couple days in I was super bloated and cramping, tired, backache and then the red river flows. For like 2 days and a half. Now I’m here wondering wth? Could this be endo or something else?

I hope I’m just overreacting. But I really need some help or guidance here.