Picky about the pace

So I’ve come to realize that my man and I can’t really make love. We only see each other once maybe twice a week so we’re usually pretty pent up come the end of the week, and it’s always hard and rough and fast and just 💦💦💦💦💦

Don’t get me wrong, the intimacy is there, just not so much in the bedroom 😂 with us it’s always “running in flip flops” type of sex, and it’s amazing. Just for shits and giggles he’s tried moving slowly, sensually against me and.... he went soft 😂😂 I’m just wondering am I the only one who needs it ROUGH in order to fully get off? 😏