Why can’t i orgasm during sex?

Question

So I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 months and i told him i used to fake it with my previous one because sex wasn’t good. Not specifically saying i don’t fake it with him, he thinks he makes me orgasms during actually sex all the time

. That was months ago and now i just feel terrible telling him i can’t orgasm during sex. Is there something wrong with me? I want to know what it feels like but lately sex seems like it’s awesome for him and not so much for me. I just ask him to go down on me so i can at least try to cum.

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The only one you hurt by faking it is yourself. If you are comfortable enough for him to be all in your goodies than you shouldn’t be hesitate to be honest. And maybe you just need more stimulation to achieve O. Try different things behind closed doors and I’m sure you will find what works for you and your partner

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Get yourself a small vibrator. That’s the only way I can orgasm during sex or if my hubbys gone down on me beforehand and got me warmed up enough. It’s very normal for women not to orgasm just from vaginal penetration

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Nothing is wrong is u!! In fact, ur extremely normal!! The majority of women can’t orgasm from penetration alone & need clitoral stimulation. So, try positions that allow u to get that type of stimulation either from ur own hands, his hands, or a vibrator. Or, u can have him get u off orally before intercourse.

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Well you might just need more to have an orgasm you can try porn while having sex, sextoys, or you can try foreplay

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I dont cum during sex either unless I play with myself at the same time.

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Try Rubbing your clit while you guys have sex

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try playing with ur clit while he is getting it in... or get your self more excited before he starts his thang.

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I used to be in the same situation, and still kinda am. For the first year my husband and I were married I faked my orgasms every time until I broke down and told him I’d been faking and why. It’s not unusual, you’re perfectly normal

Why can’t i orgasm during sex?

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