Ya...

I want to move to Arizona this summer when I’m done with my summer camp but every time I tried to talk to my family about it they pawn it off like I’m joking or talking hypothetically ...

I have a place to stay and I plan on finishing my studies as a nurse there so it’s not like I’m giving up on my future.

I’m 26 but my family is acting like I am a joke at times they say they are there for me when I want to talk but when I do they shrug it off like I’m not being serious. I packed enough to be happy to go south to Arizona rather than east to New Jersey.

However the way my family is not listening it’s as if they will act like I’m running away and I’m scared that I’m going to lose them and The relationship I have with them

I would be twenty minutes away from my sister who has a baby and is pregnant with her second.

Moving would make me happy because I feel trapped in Jersey but I’m scared that by doing what I want to and what would make me happy will cost me my family