Am I over reacting ?

Okay so my husbands friend stayed with us 2 months before they deployed , he bought a washer and dryer that was used even though I told him not to he insisted and did it anyway ( I told him not to because I knew him staying wasn’t a permanent thing) so they both deployed for seven months then came back about 3-4 months ago since then my husband and I have been getting along horrible and it’s are first year of marriage so I just didn’t think anyone should be living with us and that we needed time to work on us or leaving was my only other option so my husband agreed and asked his friend to leave , since then his friend has been acting like crazy , I told his friend he can come over during the day to hangout with my husband that all me and my husband were asking for was time to work on us without anyone else living here , but anytime he came over to hangout with my husband he literally would be a dick to us and tell us we take all his money and he spends his money on us so he has none and it’s really been pissing me off he payed for the WiFi here because he was the only one to use it and we told him multiple times to just cancel it if money was such an issue and he never did , secondly he will literally beg me to talk my husband into going on a two day trip to the beach or big bear and when we go on trips we always split the room or wherever we’re staying in half so we pay half he pays half , but once we get down to the beach all his friend does is pout the whole time and says he doesn’t want to be there when HE is the one who BEGGED me to get my husband to say yes , also he drinks EVERY SINGLE NIGHT and is so loud and obnoxious it’s really posses me off and makes me resent my husband because this wasn’t what I imagined when getting married , also his friend always hits on me and he went out and bought me this 200 eollar guitar (i NEVER asked for ) which made my husband ask me if we were sleeping together which I understand because if it was vise versus I would’ve asked to , anytime we go out to eat my husband and I always pay for his meals it got to a point where I had to tell my husband no more because we would end up spending an extra 15-20 every time we’d go out to eat and he’s a single marine and doesn’t have any bills besides WiFi and his phone he never went grocery shopping and ate all our food so anyway it had been a week since we asked him to move back to the barracks for a while and me and my husband are doing so much better since he has been gone but his friend is acting crazy he keeps making excuses as to why he has to stay the night here and my husband told him no we aren’t ready to live with someone again and he literally got pissed and acted like a child and has been treating my husband like shit at work and he came to a cookout we had and acting like a huge ass wouldn’t talk to anyone and stormed out of our house made a scene and slammed the door it’s actually scaring me the way he’s acting he still has a key to our house and I just have a bad feeling around him my husband doesn’t think I should be worrying and that its not a big deal but I really think his friend is crazy and way to emotionally attached to us here are some messages between him and I after the cookout I’m the blue , and I have no idea why he randomly texted me why at the very end I just ignored him