Parent? Mom? Bubba?

Rhiannon

My wife and I are 12 weeks. Expecting our first, a girl. We can’t wait!

But I was struck by how all the literature on what to expect when you’re not the carrier is around either being a dad or the woman who is carrying. How have others handled their identity as parent but not mom?

Also wondering if there are reccos on literature I could read.

Rhi