I asked him not to cum in me

But he did anyways. I’m so upset. His response “I was just playing around”. This man has been wonderful in all other aspects. He takes good care of me and my kids. Helps a ton and is just a Godsend. But I’m very upset about what happened.. we had sex Monday too and I told him not to cum in me. He did. I didn’t make a fuss. We don’t usually do the pull out method but i stopped my pill and wanted to do it as a precaution this week. Yesterday i mentioned it and how I needed not to get prego and I wanted sex but I didn’t want him to cum in me like last time. He said okay. And then just did it. We’ve been fighting since. He only apologized after I got mad but sorry isn’t enough.

Has anyone else experienced this with their partner?