is it disrespectful to take mine and my husband's maternity pictures with my step daughter in them as well? I don't want to step on toes of another mother. but my husband also wants his daughter in them because it's her brother. from other moms perspective what do y'all think?

edit: I feel like I should also put this in. the mother refused to let my husband see his little girl for awhile and he didn't have the money to fight her. she then let him and me see her for a month but then found out I was pregnant and came up with a excuse to say we couldn't see her. we are in court battle now with temporary/permit half custody. as immature as she is acting I still don't want to step on another woman's toes, even though it is my husband daughter too and my son's sister.