About to pull my hair out - MIL

My MIL has always been overbearing but she lives in Germany so I can deal with it then, as I don’t ever see her. Well she’s here for the summer and is already making me want to shoot myself.

So I’ve been waiting on a dentist appointment for some time now, as my tooth cracked. Well it was set for the day they arrived, which I didn’t know it was going to be that day till they arrived. So she gets super pissy because that’s “inconvenient” for her. 🙄 whatever still went.

The next day I had my glucose test, as I am 24 weeks pregnant. Well I didn’t know I was getting an ultrasound before hand, because my OB scheduled me one mid appointment to check my cervix and I just happened to get to see my daughter. Well, when I got home and she came over I was talking about how much baby E has grown and how her features were becoming prominent and she has the audacity to say I should’ve taken her with me to my appointment so she could “see her damn grandchild”. Like, my own mother hasn’t been with me to an appointment because I’m an adult and I don’t want anyone but my husband there??

I’m at my wits end with this woman, as my husband just remains neutral and chalks everything up to her “joking”