should I fuck him?

Alyssa

So I've really liked this guy for five years. we are planning to drink together just the two of us and he's sending out the "I'm down to f vibes" and I really want to you know? but I'm a virgin and I don't want that to be the whole relationship. But I absolutely love foreplay but that's what I've really been doing with the guys I'm with since I never really wanted to fuck them. so should I go for it? or should I wait if out?