Scared shitless. Leaving verbally/emotionally abusive husband and psychotic stepson ; 26+6 pregnant; any words of comfort please 😢

I really feel like I tried. We did couples counseling and my SS is in therapy - but DH refuses to discipline him.

My SS charged at me with the intent of punching my belly; didn’t get in trouble; he smiled when I asked him not to leave the pool gate open because my 18 month old could drown; he’s assaulted me/my daughter/my husband. He’s 4.5 years old.

His actions never have consequences because my husband says “it’ll just upset him.”

My husband has verbally abused me and emotionally manipulated and abused me.

In Texas (where we live) you cannot get divorced before the baby is born - but he’s already threatened to “take HIS son away from me.”

I’m an educated woman with 2 jobs - but not working due to it being summer and I’m a nursing instructor and at my college they don’t have summer classes and I also shattered my right foot and it’s not healing well.

I’m leaving because I fear for the safety of my 18 month old, myself, and my unborn son. I’m also tired of the way my husband treats me.

I’m in financial fear but that’ll work itself out.

Edit: this child has said before he wants the baby to die; he’s broken his mother’s nose; he got kicked out of daycare for slamming a little girl’s head on the floor 5 times in a row;