My mom hates me

I’m 17 and my mom says she doesn’t care about me anymore. A few months ago, I had a boyfriend and I would stay over at his house and lie to my parents. When they found out they were pretty mad and called my a liar and said that they won’t look at me the same and I can’t be trusted. Now After the relationship ended I’ve been building trust back.

But, now Ive met someone who’s really kind and whim I really like and I slept over once. The time I slept over also happened to be my parents 25th wedding anniversary and we were going to do something as a family that evening. So while I was at this boys house she calls me to make a plan. And I say I’m with Katie, my friend. And she asks, “is that really where you are?” And I just can’t lie anymore and I tell her I am at a boys house.

She proceeds to tell me I’ve ruined her anniversary, she doesn’t care about me anymore and what I do, that I’m a liar, that she doesn’t want me to come home or be a part of the family thing for their anniversary.

It is my fault I lied about being at a boys house. I just wish I didn’t feel like I had to lie. Am I a bad person?