mamas struggle (kinda long rant) sorry not sorry

ive been on and off this app for a few years now and most recently used it for when i was pregnant and now post partum questions and advice when i need it. and the thing ive noticed is how quickly other mamas go off to down on you as a mom if you so much as say something wrong or do something the slightest bit different. on multiple times ive even seen a mama get bashed just for having food stamps to beable to feed herself to feed her baby. people are quick to jump to conclusions but what they dont know is the back story to someones life. like maybe this mama is on food stamps because she is struggling with her job, while being fully employed she isnt able to work because perhaps her baby is in and out of the ER and Hosptials. or maybe she owns her own company and is in a bit of a dry spell during certain months. etc etc ive seen people getting bashed because they decided to live with a parent during a hard time for the sake of their babies future family relations and growth and the sake of the persons own mentality. or moved in with a relative while they are in the process of even purchasing a home for them and their child.

And on so many levels of cruelty ive seen and even went through the cruelty of single mother bashing. people making it out to be as if its our faults a father hasnt stuck around or some other excuse they want to create for a individual.

the whole point of this app is to be able to freely come here for help and guidance in the fun adventures of parenthood. but in the last 5 months of my journey while going through this app on occasions from day to day i honestly feel like half of the people on here could care less about helping anyone but themselves. ive been bashed for many things including being a single mother. bashed because i put a blanket on my son while he was napping in my arms in a chilly room. and most recently bashed for temporary food stamps while ive lived in a hospital off and on while my son gets diagnosed with epilepsy and i make less than 200$ a week from my home job.

the whole point is maybe instead of letting people down and making them feel worse than they already possibly do lets try and bring peoples feelings up and make everyones day a little better!