I need opinions

A friend of mine recently found out she was pregnant by a man she was with for a while .. they planned this pregnancy. As soon as she told him she was pregnant he began acting funny and started distancing himself and even at one point said to get an abortion . She was so upset and called me and said he told her that because she recently found out she has to move and told him and he claims he only suggested that because of the stress from moving .

They had an etopic in December and this is the first pregnancy since then. She found out yesterday that the baby is in the right place via early sonogram . So the question is should she be the one to tell him everything about the babies status and health going forward since he doesn’t come around anymore or should she just not follow behind him and let him ask on his own ?

I am a firm believer in handling my business and if he wants to be around or involved he will be...if not 🤷‍♀️