Orgasms

Hey girls,

This may seem like a silly question but I’ve read so many things online and still don’t feel like I have an answer..

I would really love to be able to have an orgasm from sex, but I never have. I’m not sure if it’s just that it’s not possible for some women, but many of my friends tell me about the orgasms they have, so it doesn’t seem that that’s the case. Is there anything I can do to make it possible? Sex is still extremely enjoyable and I can have clitoral orgasms, but I’m curious about the other type of orgasm. Is it very different?

This may be relevant information: when having an orgasm from having my boyfriend go down on me, I have to fantasize scenarios in my head, I don’t just cum from the feeling. Is this normal? And could it be that I need to do the same during sex? It bothers me because I’d like to be present but u just don’t cum otherwise..

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Would love to hear your thoughts. Sorry for the confusing question(s)!