where did the romance go..

Question

me and my fiance have been together for 3 years(best friends since high school). in the beginning I was everything he wanted it was me 24/7 when he'd be with friends he still message me yeah not asap but still a text flowers not just on holidays little love letters cute things. now 3 years later I feel like there's no love, arguments more than before,not even noticing I'm here. the only thing I can think about is "they try hard to get you and once they have you they stop trying." what am I supposed to do to keep us together or should I just realize that this "spark" is over.

Answer

I’ve noticed that men tend to stop doing those things when they get comfortable. Not that that is a valid excuse, but yeah. My husband refuses to do the romantic stuff he did when we first got together but I know he loves me very much.

Answer

He still wants you, it is just that the relationship has progressed beyond honeymoon phase. If it really bothers you, speak to him about it. Make sure he knows you are missing those parts of the relationship and set goals to reconnect with each other, like a weekly date night or something. I've been with my high school sweetheart over 13 years now and we went through the same issues. Whenever I start feeling like this, I tell him my love tank is empty and that is his cue to take some extra time to focus on our relationship.

Answer

true once they have u they don't try as hard anymore but the spark can be lit again,it just takes time an love to put into it. I been with my S.O for 5 years and we still get shy sometimes. Communication is the key

where did the romance go..

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