My boyfriend is 26 and recently talked to me about wanting to see a doctor because he thinks he might have ED. In his words “There’s a lot of times when I should be turned on/hard but I’m not”. He has a much lower sex drive than I. We have sex about 1-2 times/week and I usually initiate it. If it were up to his sex drive it would be once every week or two. He’s definitely attracted to me and has assured me I’m not the problem and I believe him. I’m good in bed, and we’re both into kinks. I am sexy toward him a lot but most the time he’s not in the mood and gets frustrated when I hit on him (talk, touch, kiss, etc) sometimes. This is where I notice it the most. He has a much lower sex drive and doesn’t get turned on nearly as much as past partners so I notice a difference. He’s also not already hard and ready to go every time we have sex, a lot of the time I have to go down on him to get him that way. When we have sex he stays hard the whole time and ejaculation is normal if not a little prolonged so no problems keeping it up. He usually isn’t that soft but only sometimes is he completely hard (20-30% of the time).

Symptoms I notice are:

Low sex drive

Difficulty getting hard

Not reaching full erection

Infrequent erections

Does this sound like ED to you? Any experiences with this situation? Comments would be very helpful! Thanks!