If someone throws you a baby shower ...

So this is baby number two , my sister in law offered to give me a baby shower and I agreed because I have a toddler and my life is hectic , so it would honestly be one less thing to worry about . The thing about it is she taking it over , not really caring about my say on things yet wants me to PAY for half of everything. Also she wants to to be at every store when buy stuff so I’m still doing the work too lol I’m a perfectionist plus the pregnancy hormones..... it’s really driving me crazy ..... 🙄🙄🙄🙄 this is my last baby so I want it to be special 😞😞😞 I’m sure I’ll get a bunch of comments about how I should be grateful she even doing it ... lol