I'm 32 & SO is 35. We decided to remove my BC patch this past friday. Today (Tuesday) I started what I think is (after googling) my "withdrawl bleeding". We have 2 boys, ages 11 & 5. With my first son, we didn't "try", but also didn't do anything to prevent it. It took about 4 years before I got pregnant. I was 20. My second was conceived about 6 months after my IUD was removed (age 26). Hoping it doesn't take years this time!!