In kaws hate me

Y’all. I had a feel my father in law doesn’t like me, but now i really feel like he doesn’t. He was talking with my husband about going to some convention thing around my due date. Not even in the same state 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 he said it’s a week long and at the end of November. My husband said “but that’s when My wife’s due” and his dad whispered and then tried to guilt my husband into going because they “don’t spend time together” and I know babies never come when they are supposed to but seriously?? Can you go to a different convention another time? This is our first child and i want my husband to be there. I don’t want to tell my husband why he can and can’t do, but i hope he doesn’t listen to his dad. Why else would my father in law want to take my husband out of state around my due date?? He total hates me