Touchy feely

Mandy

Im gunna be a FTM, I’m 12+5 so I’m barely showing. How do y’all deal with touchy feely people? It’s manly my mother in law. She’s very grabby and likes to rub my belly and put her face really close to it and it makes me super uncomfortable. I understand this is her first grandchild but I hate people being in my bubble. Also how do I get her to understand I don’t want her to be in the room when I give birth? We’re not exactly on good terms but it’s nothing personal I just don’t see a need for her to be in there.. . My husband will obviously be in there but besides him if I’m allowed id like to have MY mom and my sister in there.. it’s different when it’s your son having a baby vs your daughter having a baby and I don’t think she gets that. A girl needs her mother. Am I overreacting???