Has anyone encountered or is dealing with a significant other who hurts themselves or causes pain to themselves ( intentional and non - intentional) during intense argument?

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If so what was the result? Did u guys stay together or break up ?

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he would punch the wall next to me after anything that annoyed him even if I wasn't involved - 1, to scare me, 2, to get me to feel sorry for him hurting his hand - so I left, I didn't want it to one day be me and not the wall

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My boyfriend has anger problems, that stems from a childhood being all over the place. When he gets mad (like furious mad not just normal mad) he ALWAYS punches walls/dashboard/doors/etc. I’ve never considered leaving him for this because I personally went through a depression stage where I was self harming. I usually let the anger run its course, and of course, he ends up crying in my chest. I feel like each situation has to be handled differently. If you feel danger for yourself then I most definitely do not agree with staying in that environment but if your SO just has emotional tendencies I feel like it can be dealt with appropriately 🤷🏻‍♀️ that’s just me though.

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I did before my husband and it’s not something I wanna go through again. He was also an alcoholic and found out he was doing drugs too and he was abusive.

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I would leave them, that sounds controlling and manipulative to me if they’re doing it after an argument

Has anyone encountered or is dealing with a significant other who hurts themselves or causes pain to themselves ( intentional and non - intentional) during intense argument?

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