I’m going to try & not make this so long but I need to RANNNNNT! Lol

So my boyfriend has a 2 year old daughter but she lives in Cali with her mom and has been there since she was almost 1. He sees her every month. Blah blah.

Me & my boyfriend just had a daughter she’s going to be 3 months. And my MIL is so controlling his sister tells me because she wasn’t able to have the ability to bond with her first granddaughter because she was taken to Cali with the mother. That’s why she’s like that. But I feel like it’s not your daughter don’t try and tell me what I can and cannot do.

For example, I’ve been trying to get her on a sleeping schedule & no matter what I do the MIL will have her sleeping all day so then I get fucked and I’m up all night & mind you she speaks no English so when I tell my boyfriend to let her know like please can you not do this she gets upset and throws a fit.

Another one, I live in Vegas, and rn it’s like 115 degrees outside and she will have her wrapped in a warm ass blanket sweating and I’ll get her from her and I’m like wtf she’s super hot and she’s like no she’s cold & im like wtf! Do you not see her whole back wet 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

UGHHHHHH the worst one that literally drives me insane!!!!!

Everytime my daughter cry’s she runs into the room where we are and goes she’s hungry and I’m like she just ate! & she’s like no she’s hungry and I’m like NO and then will say something in spanish to my boyfriend. But I can tell by now what my daughter cry’s for sometimes dirty diaper, or she’s tired or just wants attention. But no matter what I say shes always saying she’s hungry. And will literally have my boyfriend get up to make a bottle & then my daughter will only eat not even an ounce and there is a bottle wasted because she wasn’t hungry. But of course I’m wrong like I don’t know my own DAUGHTER! So now everytime my daughter cry’s she’s relying on a bottle to soothe her because my MIL always sticks a bottle in her mouth & I can tell she’s overfeeding her because the end of the night my daughter will have an upset stomach! And UGHHHH no matter what I say, I’m not right.

We live with her at the moment, and I’m just counting the days till I can get tf out! 😒