Where are my rape survivors? Help me

Question

I was raped by a family member 3 months ago and I feel like depression is barely starting to hit me.  I don’t  wanna hang with friends or family, I just wanna be alone, I cry myself to sleep all the time now.  Half the time I’m scared and don’t even know what I’m scared of.  I used to LOVE drinking coffee in the mornings and now I don’t enjoy it.  I force myself to eat because I don’t ever wanna eat.  I’m just not hungry.  I just feel like the life has been sucked out of me.  Everything is foggy.  I struggle getting out of bed.  I struggle with praying.  I feel like I’m disconnected from God.  I am seeking counseling but sometimes I feel like I just want to talk to other survivors and hear their stories.  Tell me, is there hope? Will I recover?

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Honey honey honey. 
I’m so sorry. I know what you’re going through.
You need to tell someone you trust. You need to start seeing a therapist and take your life back! 
I promise you there is hope, I promise your life goes on- but you can’t hide it forever and you can’t do it on your own.
This person has taken so much from you. Don’t let them take more of your days. Don’t let them take more of your nights. Don’t let them take more of your happiness.

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It takes time to over come this. It’s not easy but it’s worth the fight. Keep going to your therapy even if you feel like it’s not working. If you feel like this therapist isn’t working for you, find another one who you feel close with. Keep going even if you feel like giving up. I was raped for 5 years and it took a huge toll on my life. But I’m finally able to feel free and have a amazing boyfriend who i trust with my life. This whole thing has changed me but it is now a good change. I’m closer to god. I can help other survivors. I have a different way of seeing life now. God did not do this to you. Remember god is everything good. You do NOT deserve this at all. You did not do anything wrong. Don’t blame yourself. You are the victim. YOU are a warrior. All of us warriors stick together. The person who did this won’t get away with it. Either he will pay with the law or he will pay with god. You can do this. 💗

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There is always hope. You may feel disconnected with God but he is there and he loves you. 
I survived sexual abuse from a family member just over 12 years ago. It's been hard and I'm in a bit of a depressive spell right now, but it was worth it. You are worth it. You've already been so strong, you can make it. 
If you ever need you can message me. And don't be afraid to ask for help. Go to your doctor and ask about medication options. Over the counter there are supplements you can take (omega 3, vitamin B complex and vitamin D).  
The two best things I ever did was ask my doctor for help, and talked to ppl I trust. 
It's a long journey, but it is so worth it.
Sending you love 💕

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It gets better, but know that you’ll always have the emotional burden and demons. Over time you’ll be able to better cope, but having people there for you is really the true way to making things better. Create some type of closure and make sure you seek that help

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I haven’t been in your position and cannot begin the fathom what you have been through, or how long it will take you to be able to feel a sense of “normality” again but let me say this, 
We each have a choice, to fight or flee. You are seeking help and on top of that you are seeking contact with other survivors here. You are actively doing things to help heal yourself. What does that mean? That shows you are a fighter. Even in the darkest moments, there’s pieces of you fighting. 
It will take time, and some days the battle will feel like it’s with yourself, but you’ve got this, so long as there’s fight in you, even if it’s the only tiniest amount of fight, it’s there. 
Never forget, the biggest fires can start with the smallest of embers. 
You will be that fire.

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I understand what u have gone threw and I’ve been there. Don’t give up just give it some time❤️

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please find a therapist. they will guide you through everything you are feeling and help you come out the other side

Where are my rape survivors? Help me

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