Not sure anyone else has had this problem and before anyone starts with nasty comments I do do everything but work my husband has allowed me to stay home with our daughter so yes he is the only one working...

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Okay ladies I am a sahm I do all of mine, my husbands, and our child's laundry I cook when we actually have food to fix( we live with his mother, his grandparents are 20 seconds up the hill dinner is usually at there house) I clean up after myself my child and my husband I do dishes sweep keep all toys picked up covers for the couch folded keep our bathroom cleaned I mean I do everything but wipe my husband's ass after he spends 20 mins pooping. I try to make it to where when he gets home from work he dont have to to a damn thing but spend time with me and our child. With his work he literally works 2weeks out of a month anyone who knows someone in the d.o.c. knows how this goes anyways I usually have him keep an eye on our daughter what time he can keep his nose out of the phone while I do stuff around the house well half the time shes crying because shes bumped her head or fallen or because shes got a dirty diaper and he doesn't pay enough attention to check her so she currently has a really bad diaper rash. Anytime I say something about he needs to keep an eye on her so I can get something done he gets aggravated and just says that I can do it after our daughter goes to bed at 10p.m. by this time I am ready to drop dead face in the pillow asleep I try not to aske him to do anything because I understand he works but he has every other weekend off and every other week only works 2 days so yes I do ask him for a little help around the house from time to time only because out of the 3 adults that live here I'm the on who's here 24/7 and neither my husband or his mother can keep picked up after themselve. well point of the rant my sister-in-law called my husband's phone earlier tonight while he's asleep ( I completely trust him just don't like the way he's going to other women to talk about me) after getting off the phone I look at his messenger saw messages he had sent to a said friend of his but everytime I add her on Facebook she deletes me after a month? anyways he says that hes going home from his greataunts funeral to clean (had told him the night before what my plans where when we returned home he went with his dad to the funeral I visited with my mother. our 8 month old and a time to be quiet does not mix. so he was okay with me not being there) anyways her response was "she doesn't work so make her do it" that sentance alone coming from another woman who has a child of her own but chooses to live off of her mother not make an effort to get a job and take care of her own child just kills me and I want to confront him about it but then I want to just go off on her myself but then again he would take her side about it or just talk about me more behind my back.... rant over enjoy this picture of my rainbow baby😀 I have truly been blessed with such a wonderful little girl