Labor message

So, my husband is super excited to send out the text that we are in labor so I don’t wanna take that away from him. However, his mom is too much. She is an overbearing over-sharer and too opinionated. She is already tell people ( probably the whole family- it’s huge ) that our induction date is Tuesday. That makes me super uncomfortable because I’m a ftm and not sure what to expect. I am also very anxious that something will go wrong just because I am a worrier. So, this note is something I will send out to them and others ( to be fair) I am just wondering if this note is mean , nice, necessary or I’m over reacting.

I have asked my husband to take care of it so I don’t have to get involved. However he says he does then doesn’t. I just can’t chance it. This is my labor and I want to be in control of it.

This is a general message to those who will receive updates that we are at the hospital. I know this probably goes without saying but just In case.

Please do not share with anyone else that we are in labor. We are only wanting a select few to know until after baby is safely born.

Please do not continuously text/call as we are preparing for the babies arrival. We will update you when we can.

Also if we share photos with you do not share those with anyone or post them on social media.

We are overjoyed at being first time parents and would like to be the first to announce the birth of our son.

We will be accepting visitors once mom, dad and baby get settled. Thank you for understanding.♥️