Calling myself gay and flag confusion

Ricki

So I have recently came out to myself as pan and I have some questions I need cleared up. So I identify as pan but it’s easier to say bi. Is that okay? Also I feel like saying I’m gay isn’t right. But I want to be able to say it. Is it okay? Lastly. I want to get a rainbow flag but I’m not gay, I’m Pan. Is that okay? Ik all these are more my preference and nothing’s ever “not okay” but I’m still confused.